Tuesday, May 11, 2010

The Blessing...He's Alive

{Everett Brewer, 1953 Graduation Picture}
For those of you have been sharing my life's journey, you already know how very much my Daddy means to me...he is my FAMILY! On Mother's Day weekend my Father planned a motorcycle trip to visit a dear friend of his in Julian. On Mother's Day morning at around 9am his cycle got into some gravel on his way home & he went down. My family & I had just finished brunch when we got the call that he had been airlifted to a hospital in Escondido. He had a brain bleed, a stage 4 cut to his spleen, broken ribs, a gash on his head & road wounds to his entire front side, I was terrified he was going to die.
{My family at Disneyland in 1958}
The Blessing....He did not!
My Father is going to be fine. Holding his hand in the ICU surrounded by family, again I realize what an amazing man my Father is. Each time a RN or Dr came into the room he thanked them for taking such great care of him. He called them by their 1st names, always trying to read their ID badges even with his swollen, black & blue eyes. He asked where they lived or went to school. He asked about their children & told them how much he loved his own children & how rich we had made his life. Looking into the blue eyes that I have known my whole life, I saw only love.

{April 2010, Dad's 75th birthday with Courtney & Kai}
In the ICU he also talked of his blessings. He talked of being in Korea where the enemy was shooting bullets at him & yet God kept him safe. He talked about getting older & the injuries & surgeries he had had & yet he was still able to ride his bicycle 12 miles a day & he
knew that by surviving that morning he was again blessed.
I'm going to leave you my friends, with one my favorite posts about my Dad... My Father's Eyes. More updates to come....

XOXO

27 comments:

Linda said...

Thank the Lord for his wonderful grace. I am so happy for you that your Dad is alive. He sounds like a really incredible man. I will pray for his continued healing!

Angela said...

I'm so happy for your miracle!! What a blessing to have a father like him, and what a blessing that he gives God the glory for bringing him through once again.

Diane said...

What a blessing that your Dad is going to be fine. I'm so happy for you. My father passed away when he was 59--I always think of him and wish that he could still be with all of us. You're family is blessed.

Jenny S said...

Thank goodness he will be okay! You are a lucky lady to have such a daddy!!

Jamie said...

Oh Honey! Thank Goddness he is going to be ok and what a miracle indeed!!! I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. I know you must be exhausted Sweetie! What a scary time this has been for you. Try to get some rest and thank you so much for sharing this with us. Love, Jamie

Robin Thomas said...

I love that he wanted to ride his motorcycle to visit a friend. I am so happy that he is doing okay. He must be a strong person. That picture of your family at Disneyland looks like a movie set. How wonderful. More than classic. I wish for continued good healing for your father.

Gail said...

I'll say a prayer for your Dad, and hope that he'll heal quickly! Such a scary thing....and I love your Disneyland photo, what a handsome bunch!
Hugs to you,
Gail

Creations By Cindy said...

Praise the Lord! I'll be praying for a quick and full recovery for your dad. Thanks for sharing this with us. It really touched my heart this morning. Be blessed. Cindy

Beach House Living said...

Dear Susie,
Prayers to your Dad for a speedy and full recovery. Still a motorcycle rider that's pretty cool. He sounds like a great Dad. I like the Disney land photo too; it looks like it could be an advertisement.

Lucy said...

Susie, what a relief that he is going to be ok! He'll be pretty sore for quite some time though!
Your father is amazing, you are so lucky to have him and he's lucky to have you!
Take care and I wish him a speedy recovery.
Big hugs!
Lucy

Debby said...

Sending prayers for you Dad. I am so glad he is doing well, must have been such a scare for you and your family.
Debby

Linda said...

OH Susie~ how frightening this must have been for all of you! I am so glad to hear he will be fine...I will be praying for a quick and full recovery!

Susan deGeneres said...

Hi Suzie,
I just stopped by to introduce myself; Lynn, from Blue Skies, told me about you and I wanted to say hello and thank you for stopping by my blog. I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad, he sounds like a wonderful man and still full of adventure at 75 years young.
Best wishes to you all,
Susan

Katsui Jewelry said...

Suzie,
What a scare! I am so glad he is alive and is going to make it through this. He sounds like a wonderful man and a wonderful father. God carried him through another one!
Big hugs,
Suz

Charlene said...

Susie, I am soooooooooo very glad your Dad is doing well. When we spoke on the phone & you were packing I was so afraid for you. A girl's DADDY is so important to her for her whole life through. As you & I sort of hedged on my Mom is IFFFFFY at best but, my Daddy was AMAZING! He was the heart of my world! Oh how I miss him so enjoy every second with your precious Daddy. You both are blessed. Tell him your friend Charlene sends him a BIG GET WELL HUG & one for you too sweetie! Take care of yourself too during this stressful time. Charlene

diane said...

He sounds like an amazing man Susie....I am soooo very thankful he is bruised and battered but still alive. So thankful.
btw...my father was also in Korea.
God Bless my friend....

Dianne said...

Oh my! I'm so glad he's going to be okay. Having been in a major motorcycle crash and airlifted to a trauma center myself (and recently losing a friend to one), I know how lucky and blessed he is to be alive and will recover... Please give him my best...it's always good to hear that a fellow rider has survived and is surrounded by his grateful loved ones...

Andrea said...

Susie, so glad to hear your Dad is going to be OK. You are your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

moose2bear said...

I am so glad to hear your Dad is going to be alright. Your words tell me how special he is to you. I wish him a speedy recovery and another 12 mile bike ride soon!

Anne - Fiona and Twig said...

Your dad sounds like a wonderful man.
Now I know where you get it from.

:-)

Elizabeth said...

Oh, I'm so happy you visited my blog because now I have found your amazing,beautiful blog!
I am so glad your dad is ok!
I look forward to following you as well!
Blessings to you and your family!
Elizabeth

Attic Rat said...

Thanks for stopping by and soooo glad that your Daddy is going to be alright. He sounds like a wonderful, wonderful man who blesses all he meets.

When I was in high school, I hit gravel on my motorcycle and received a nasty burn to my arm. It took a number of years before it finally faded. Motorcycle accidents are no fun.

Happy hunting,
Teresa

Katsui Jewelry said...

Suzie,
Just want you to know that I have been thinking of you and your dad and keeping him in my prayers.
Hugs,
Suz

Alina said...

Dear Susie, from a Daddy's girl to another, may I say this post brought tears to my eyes. I hope he has a fast recovery and that you may continue to enjoy his love and company for MANY more years. Hope that when you have some free time you can stop by and say hello. Nice to meet you! xx

Taluula said...

Susie I am sending you good thoughts for your Dad to get a speedy recovery.

Creations By Cindy said...

Just needed to tell you have an award over at my blog! Be blessed. Cindy

Dragonfly Creations said...

Hi Cindy
Such wonderful news about your Dad, just love the graduation picture he looks such a special person.
Thank you for becoming a follower of my blog, always so pleased to make new friends from all corners of the globe!